Here are a few quick things to tap into the power of letting go. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Remove attachments. Really become aware of what we are attached in our lives. It will be material things obviously first, but also start to look deeper at people, behaviours and thoughts.
2. Difuse expectations. Have no expectation of people, actions or situations. If we take out the pressure we can let things flow.
3. No agenda. Have no hidden agenda of why we do, say or partake in situations in our lives. Allow our lives to unfold in the moment.
4. Take out outcomes. Create possibilities for what you want to happen but don't control the path. Be open in the journey to what want can happen.
5. Open up. Remember the big picture and allow the light to come in. Allow the creator's energy to flow into your life and flow through your desires. Get out of our own way!
Here are a few quick things to keep the relationship with your inner Gemini and those who are Gemini. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Gemini is ruled by Mercury. This means that Gemini is the sign of intellect and communication in the physical and, as such, have a strength for information, speed, talking, many projects on the go and knowledge across many different topics.
2. Gemini is speed. Gemini can be fast to the point of skimming and lacking depth in their life. As an Air sign, they like the stimulation. Gemini might find challenges in love with Earth signs as they may be too heavy and slow for a Gemini. Gemini will want to be on the move and adventurous for someone like a heavy Taurus or Capricorn.
3. Gemini and fusion. Gemini occurs during a time when we are building our possibilities for the next year which is a time to fuse the spiritual world with the physical. Basically, we can all manifest something new during this month and overcome something negative about ourselves in the process.
4. Twins of Gemini. Gemini is represented by the twins which represents the extremes of two worlds within. The good and dark and other dualities create a Gemini personality finding challenges, focus and balance or being calm very challenging. This leads to doubts and uncertainties. Focus is the key for Gemini.
5. Gemini's grounding. When a Gemini can overcome their nature, they find a better ability to cope and more satisfaction in life as they will be able to get roots, form deeper relationships, commit to what is in their life and settle their energy that can be very flighty. It is an air sign, and like the air, can be very hard to pin down or capture.
Here are a few quick things to help you overcome money issues or lack. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy heart and soul.
1. Removing doubt. The first step is to remove any doubts that you can have money and abundance. You are the Boss, CEO, numero uno, MD and FDM (Final Decision Maker) about your financial situation. Life is the business you are running and prosperity is a state of mind.
2. Feeling of fulfilment. Money comes better when you earn it than when you are given it. Money that is earned from your own business and work has higher value. Therefore the more opportunities you create to earn it the better.
3. Three rules of sharing. Firstly when you receive money is to give some away - the more the better - until it is uncomfortable and illogical. Secondly, buy something nice for yourself. Then, pay your bills last (but do pay them !).
4. Appreciation and mind set. Money is a vessel for energy. The way you connect with it is how much you will attract. If you think you never have enough, can't afford, feel guilty or lack, then that's how it will be. Walk through stores thinking you can have and change your mind set. The more you appreciate what it can do, the more options will come.
5. Practicality and accountability. Give some money away, save some, spend some and keep track of what you are doing with it. At first keep a daily budget and get it down to its minimum per day without being tight. Have a goal and commit this goal to yourself. In time, you'll see the universe start to match your new energy syncronicity with money.
Here are a few quick things to help you overcome ego. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy heart and soul.
1. Ego is the opponent. The ego lives in the last place you would think to look. It resides within and is our greatest challenge.
2. Ego is many different things. Ego is not just arrogance but the whole array of negative behaviour that can be expressed. It can include anger, jealousy, shyness, low self esteem, failure gossiping, impatience and anything that can make you feel better at the cost of someone else.
3. The game of ego. The game of our ego is to beat it. It is to overcome these negative traits and reveal our true selves. If we can overcome our negativity, we can master our own lives and control our destiny.
4. Ego at work. The ego is constantly on the go and we must be aware of how we react to challenges and change. The work we have to do is change our reactions and become proactive.
5. Beat the ego. Ego sabotages our success. To gain the things in our lives we really want we must hear the ego and do the opposite no matter how illogical it seems. The illogical is the logical in getting what you want.
Here are a few quick things to bring about avoiding negativity from other people or situations. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Avoid critical conversations. Once you restrict on joining in with moans, grudges, put-downs and criticisms, you send a clear message that this is not to be a part of your life's movie. Besides, criticising something you don't like is similar to an advertisement for your own stupidity.
2. As above, so below. If you have a healthy self-esteem there won't be a need to join in with others who have negative, pessimistic views. If you are happy within, then this will be eventually reflected outside.
3. Helping others. Giving service, help, charity or clear positive actions to another person without wanting anything in return keeps your energy positive and also then attracts others with a positive energy.
4. You make the choices. If your work environment, relationships, friends or situations are negative and bringing your energy down, then remember that your have the power to change this through maintaining your positive actions, thoughts and words. You have the choice to remove yourself, too.
5. Add positivity. The deal is not only to reduce negativity but increase your own positivity. Seek like-minded people, exercise, meditate, eat well, upbeat music, fun TV or movies and smile can be all ways of increasing the energy you vibe and attracting new situations.
Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with yourself strong. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Maintain certainty and peace of mind. No matter what challenges or troubles are facing you, always believe that you have everything within you to make it through.
2. Remember that like attracts like. If there is a problem you are experiencing with someone, the chances are that you are doing the same in your life.
3. Always love people the way you want to be loved. The energy that you put into people is the energy you will recieve.
4. You are always exactly where you are meant to be. Whenever the challenges, problems and struggles come in that means you are on the right track to reaching your goals and desires. Keep going.
5. Always be proactive in your life. Avoid reacting to others behaviour and words. Allow it to happen and move on. Keep your actions with a positive energy.
Here are a few quick things to keep the love in your relationship going deeper. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Always have a goal with your partner that keeps you working as a team on a project or ambition.
2. Love is an earned energy as doesn't come from someone just walking into the room. That is a short love that won't last. Make sure that your partner is doing things to earn love.
3. Keep sharing everything that you have and come from a space of wanting to reveal love in all that you do.
4. Remind yourself that everything a partner wants to do for the other person has there happiness in mind even if it doesn't seem that way.
5. Be willing to to give unconditionally and have no needs to be met in return.
Here are a few quick things to move the power of a better date. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. The first date offered. Say that you are busy that day and get the other person to come up with another time. This sends a good message you have a life and are not needy.
2. Take a back seat. Let the other person do most of the talking on the date. It takes the pressure of you and allows the other person to do most of the sharing. Ask lots of questions if you are nervous, then once you both arrive at a topic you feel confident start to share.
3. First date length. It's better to not to do anything that lasts more than an hour or so. It is better if the date is low key such a coffee, a quick walk in the park or a lunch break.
4. Get the other person to chose the cafe, bar or park. Let's see what their thought process is and how organised they are. You'll soon tell if they are genuinely interested even if they put a little thought into the place.
5. If you are comfortable to see the person again, do something along these lines for three or four times before taking it up to something like dinner and a movie.
There are abundant images of happy couples in front of us creating an impression that most people are in a happy relationship status. How often do we consider the relationship within? What do we want to love inside? What are we married to in regards to who we are?
Relationships with family, friends and partners are challenging. They can be the very thing that really help us grow or can pull us down. Finding the right partner can be something that is a challenge in itself. If we start to consider the relationship with who we are the journey can be made a little lighter. Looking for the positives within you and the things you want to change are the first step.
To take the first step into a relationship with ourselves is to ask ourself how we see or define love. The only real thing in life is love so it is an important concept. What can love do for us? How does love affect us? What do we love about us. Remember that opposites do not attract. Like attracts like. These are the characteristics we want in the other person. The negatives in ourselves are thing we want to eradicate and work on and change. These could be jealousy, anger, victim, frustrations, worry and these kinds of emotions. By working on this with ourselves, we will be sure not to take them into our relationships.
In a speedy time when the world goes at a crazy pace and pressure and challenges are very present in our lives, it's important to take an audit of who we are. Are we behaving true to ourselves? Are we representing ourselves correctly in hard times? What do we want our time to represent and with what character do we want to express?
When challenges, pressures or hard time come into our lives it's very easy for us to become highly reactive. We can become angry, destructive, anxious, worried and all of those negative traits. We can also behave in a way which we think others want to behave and short-change ourselves through wanting to please creating our character as a victim.
It's good to have a mantra about who we are in these times. Start to consider the three most important and positive ways of behaviour the really characterise the true essence of us. It could be creative, balanced, powerful, loving and those kinds of attributes. This way we can look back and know we were true to how we want to be represented.
To remove agenda from our lives, gives us the presence to be in the moment and connected. How do we take plans away? Why is it better to have no agenda? What is the best way to achieve our desire without having any checklist?
When we set our minds on a desire, dream, ambition, it can be very easy to start to try and control what is outside of us and start to try and manipulate every situation to fit with how we see every part of our world. Often, we want our desires to turn to reality right away and have them transpire in front us. This need for immediacy in our lives can mean we start to drive plans for how things will eventuate.
When we have desires such as a new relationship, business, job, house or friendships, we start to build pictures of exactly how these things 'should' be and put our ideal into the situation. It becomes hard for us to remain open to new ideas and suggestions. Having an agenda sets us on a direct path for a limitation and removes us from endless possibility which is better than we could have even imagined.
When we want new situations in our lives we don't have to worry about what our new partner looks like or what they wear, we just need to remain open to the possibility of having a wonderful relationship and something very special will start to happen. You will be on the journey and happy on the journey, knowing that you will be happy when the person comes into your life.
Remain open and remove agenda and watch magic happen.
Removing doubt and limitations is a challenging part of the process for success in what we do. How do limitations effect us? Why do we doubt? What are the effects of these two factors on our actions?
Doubt and limitations are challenging aspects of human behaviour to shake. To be able to to set forth into an action with absolute certainty is something in itself to overcome. If the journey is more important than the destination, than one massive part of struggle during the journey is to gain the confidence and certainty in ourselves and remove aspects of our doubting and limiting selves.
Ego is a big part of doubt and this two factors. Low self-esteem, impatience, fear, not 'being good enough', control, insecurity and similar things ofwhich we all have a little list. This is why importantly we must go for our dreams and aspirations. The reason we have a doubt and accumulate them is because we have allowed the illusion of time to set in with the effect of procrastination. Once time sets in, our limiting behaviour has a moment to enter our heads and get those voices talking.
The effects of limitations and doubts all add up to the ongoing story in our head that preclude us from being the best version of ourselves we can be. The longer we leave the more doubt and limitations take hold. Bust them today and make steps to living those dreams and getting your true life expressed.
In life, many of our thoughts, dreams, desires and ideas simply disappear. What happens in the stage between thinking of greatness and doing nothing? Why do we pull out? How do we sell ourselves short?
For many people, life is a series of little waves. We go up and have a good day and we dip a little and have a bad day. We have a slightly good moments that stand out and occasional bad moments where we have some struggles. Obviously there are extreme cases, but these are few and far between. The average person has a ripple life.
Every day we can have a multitude of opportunities, breakthroughs, options, choices, ideas, strokes of genius and thoughts of absolute brilliance. We all have talents, ambitions, goals and desires. Unfortunately, we have the wonderful moments of truth inside us that seems to halt. We have a head full of giddiness with excitement. The second we stop and think about the clarity of purpose, it's gone.
Time is one of the biggest opponents in our lives. Time creates a gap between brilliance and doubt. Time is an illusion when uncertainty creeps in and kills that spark of our true selves. We want to change. We can change. Get certainty, identify your dreams and act. There is no time to waste.
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