Here are a few quick things to keep the relationship with your inner Gemini and those who are Gemini. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Gemini is ruled by Mercury. This means that Gemini is the sign of intellect and communication in the physical and, as such, have a strength for information, speed, talking, many projects on the go and knowledge across many different topics.
2. Gemini is speed. Gemini can be fast to the point of skimming and lacking depth in their life. As an Air sign, they like the stimulation. Gemini might find challenges in love with Earth signs as they may be too heavy and slow for a Gemini. Gemini will want to be on the move and adventurous for someone like a heavy Taurus or Capricorn.
3. Gemini and fusion. Gemini occurs during a time when we are building our possibilities for the next year which is a time to fuse the spiritual world with the physical. Basically, we can all manifest something new during this month and overcome something negative about ourselves in the process.
4. Twins of Gemini. Gemini is represented by the twins which represents the extremes of two worlds within. The good and dark and other dualities create a Gemini personality finding challenges, focus and balance or being calm very challenging. This leads to doubts and uncertainties. Focus is the key for Gemini.
5. Gemini's grounding. When a Gemini can overcome their nature, they find a better ability to cope and more satisfaction in life as they will be able to get roots, form deeper relationships, commit to what is in their life and settle their energy that can be very flighty. It is an air sign, and like the air, can be very hard to pin down or capture.
Here are a few quick things to bring about avoiding negativity from other people or situations. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Avoid critical conversations. Once you restrict on joining in with moans, grudges, put-downs and criticisms, you send a clear message that this is not to be a part of your life's movie. Besides, criticising something you don't like is similar to an advertisement for your own stupidity.
2. As above, so below. If you have a healthy self-esteem there won't be a need to join in with others who have negative, pessimistic views. If you are happy within, then this will be eventually reflected outside.
3. Helping others. Giving service, help, charity or clear positive actions to another person without wanting anything in return keeps your energy positive and also then attracts others with a positive energy.
4. You make the choices. If your work environment, relationships, friends or situations are negative and bringing your energy down, then remember that your have the power to change this through maintaining your positive actions, thoughts and words. You have the choice to remove yourself, too.
5. Add positivity. The deal is not only to reduce negativity but increase your own positivity. Seek like-minded people, exercise, meditate, eat well, upbeat music, fun TV or movies and smile can be all ways of increasing the energy you vibe and attracting new situations.
Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with your inner Taurus and those who are Taurus. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Taurus is ruled by Venus. This means that Taurus is the sign of all beauty in the physical such as a love of money, arts, pleasant surroundings, sex and food.
2. Taurus can be very grounded to the point of being heavy and very easily impressed by the material. As an Earth sign, they like the worldly. Taurus are best in love with Water signs like Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio as these signs bring out emotions, considerations for others and intuition.
3. Taurus occurs during a time when the Israelites left Egypt which is a code for a time to leave the material for the spiritual. Taurus represents the Egypt in us.
4. Taurus can be very good at achieving targets, goals and things they want though have a stubborn and possessive side that needs to be eased. Taurus should be with other Earth signs in business like Virgo and Capricorn.
5. When a Taurus elevates their spiritual level, and reaches the understanding that matter does not exist, the idea of “mind over matter” takes over and wonderful things can happen, moving them to a less physical movie with more elevated spiritual and social meaning.
There are abundant images of happy couples in front of us creating an impression that most people are in a happy relationship status. How often do we consider the relationship within? What do we want to love inside? What are we married to in regards to who we are?
Relationships with family, friends and partners are challenging. They can be the very thing that really help us grow or can pull us down. Finding the right partner can be something that is a challenge in itself. If we start to consider the relationship with who we are the journey can be made a little lighter. Looking for the positives within you and the things you want to change are the first step.
To take the first step into a relationship with ourselves is to ask ourself how we see or define love. The only real thing in life is love so it is an important concept. What can love do for us? How does love affect us? What do we love about us. Remember that opposites do not attract. Like attracts like. These are the characteristics we want in the other person. The negatives in ourselves are thing we want to eradicate and work on and change. These could be jealousy, anger, victim, frustrations, worry and these kinds of emotions. By working on this with ourselves, we will be sure not to take them into our relationships.
In a speedy time when the world goes at a crazy pace and pressure and challenges are very present in our lives, it's important to take an audit of who we are. Are we behaving true to ourselves? Are we representing ourselves correctly in hard times? What do we want our time to represent and with what character do we want to express?
When challenges, pressures or hard time come into our lives it's very easy for us to become highly reactive. We can become angry, destructive, anxious, worried and all of those negative traits. We can also behave in a way which we think others want to behave and short-change ourselves through wanting to please creating our character as a victim.
It's good to have a mantra about who we are in these times. Start to consider the three most important and positive ways of behaviour the really characterise the true essence of us. It could be creative, balanced, powerful, loving and those kinds of attributes. This way we can look back and know we were true to how we want to be represented.
To remove agenda from our lives, gives us the presence to be in the moment and connected. How do we take plans away? Why is it better to have no agenda? What is the best way to achieve our desire without having any checklist?
When we set our minds on a desire, dream, ambition, it can be very easy to start to try and control what is outside of us and start to try and manipulate every situation to fit with how we see every part of our world. Often, we want our desires to turn to reality right away and have them transpire in front us. This need for immediacy in our lives can mean we start to drive plans for how things will eventuate.
When we have desires such as a new relationship, business, job, house or friendships, we start to build pictures of exactly how these things 'should' be and put our ideal into the situation. It becomes hard for us to remain open to new ideas and suggestions. Having an agenda sets us on a direct path for a limitation and removes us from endless possibility which is better than we could have even imagined.
When we want new situations in our lives we don't have to worry about what our new partner looks like or what they wear, we just need to remain open to the possibility of having a wonderful relationship and something very special will start to happen. You will be on the journey and happy on the journey, knowing that you will be happy when the person comes into your life.
Remain open and remove agenda and watch magic happen.
Removing doubt and limitations is a challenging part of the process for success in what we do. How do limitations effect us? Why do we doubt? What are the effects of these two factors on our actions?
Doubt and limitations are challenging aspects of human behaviour to shake. To be able to to set forth into an action with absolute certainty is something in itself to overcome. If the journey is more important than the destination, than one massive part of struggle during the journey is to gain the confidence and certainty in ourselves and remove aspects of our doubting and limiting selves.
Ego is a big part of doubt and this two factors. Low self-esteem, impatience, fear, not 'being good enough', control, insecurity and similar things ofwhich we all have a little list. This is why importantly we must go for our dreams and aspirations. The reason we have a doubt and accumulate them is because we have allowed the illusion of time to set in with the effect of procrastination. Once time sets in, our limiting behaviour has a moment to enter our heads and get those voices talking.
The effects of limitations and doubts all add up to the ongoing story in our head that preclude us from being the best version of ourselves we can be. The longer we leave the more doubt and limitations take hold. Bust them today and make steps to living those dreams and getting your true life expressed.
In life, many of our thoughts, dreams, desires and ideas simply disappear. What happens in the stage between thinking of greatness and doing nothing? Why do we pull out? How do we sell ourselves short?
For many people, life is a series of little waves. We go up and have a good day and we dip a little and have a bad day. We have a slightly good moments that stand out and occasional bad moments where we have some struggles. Obviously there are extreme cases, but these are few and far between. The average person has a ripple life.
Every day we can have a multitude of opportunities, breakthroughs, options, choices, ideas, strokes of genius and thoughts of absolute brilliance. We all have talents, ambitions, goals and desires. Unfortunately, we have the wonderful moments of truth inside us that seems to halt. We have a head full of giddiness with excitement. The second we stop and think about the clarity of purpose, it's gone.
Time is one of the biggest opponents in our lives. Time creates a gap between brilliance and doubt. Time is an illusion when uncertainty creeps in and kills that spark of our true selves. We want to change. We can change. Get certainty, identify your dreams and act. There is no time to waste.
It is very easy to go through life holding on to pain. Why is it hard to forget the past? Is the fear and pain real? How do we open our hearts and love unconditionally?
Amongst pain, hatred, fear, loss, anger, guilt and other such negative emotions, it becomes very easy for us to lose the power of our positivity. We can look for very short terms answers and quick, easy ways to then heal us of our problems which can often heighten the negativity. Looking for simple remedies through hurting others, over-indulging, gossipping and other such behaviours to boost our own esteem in fact bolster the issue and detach us from our true selves even further.
For connection back to our love, vitality, creativity, joy and fearless behaviour, we must return to a space without limitation. We must open our hearts to conceive a world without boundaries. These boundaries can be physical and personal. It is possible to heal our hearts by closing the gap with the ones with whom we feel the pain. Perhaps not always directly with the person, but at least in our minds, we must bring ourselves to hold unconditional love and in fact appreciation for these actions.
The love and appreciation for what lesson they have taught us and how that strengthened us as human beings will heal the damage. While revenge, jealousy and rage can drive our reactions, once you establish a firm footing in the world of thanks and gratitude, their actions will hold no power over us and we can carry on regardless defusing our stress and regaining proactive actions and certainty in our life. Let go and keep remembering how good it is have known the lesson.
Letting go, giving in and getting out of the way can be hard. What is the good in surrendering? Why let go when we think we're right? How is giving in the best path to take?
Being completely focused on having faith, trust and commitment to our life is a challenge. The source, the energy, the universe or whatever we would prefer to call it is definitely there but as human being we have trouble with the word trust. We have somewhat hardened to the world and have come to the decision that our way is the only way and we must maintain control over everything. It's our way or the highway.
Life and the universe have an unusual way of working. The more we try and control, hold on and tighten our grip on our lives, the more it slips through our fingers. Things going missing, not the way we planned or not moving forward? This is because we are too focused on the outcome and how we plan is the only way for desires to happen.
For life to be fully appreciated we have to let go, surrender and trust the universe. The second we have no attachment to any outcome and submit ourselves to the journey the universe wants to take us on, is when the magic just happens. Want the new job, new partner or more happiness? Then put in a little positive and consistent effort and watch the universe manifest the result in a better way we could ever imagine. This is the beauty of surrender. This is connection. This is appreciation.
In a modern world with technology bringing people together, we can feel more distant from people than ever before. How do we create distance between ourselves and others? Why is the gap so hard to close? How do we bring people and loved ones closer into our lives without fear of being hurt?
Mobile phones, planes, emails, social media and images all bring us into a world where we are connected on a global scale like never before. This recent phenomenon has brought us witness to people doing amazing feats and also our dearest loved ones away on holidays. We can speak to anyone for whom we care almost instantaneously or meet new people who live half the world away.
There can be times when our communication can be at such great volumes that it confuses us into thinking that we are connected, in touch and relating to people in our lives. However, we have our hearts closed and our minds shut. Deep inside the true self is not speaking and the ego is doing all the chatting and probably no deep and real listening.
Reaching out to people who are in our closer circles and beginning to share who we really are and what we are truly experiencing, starts to close the gap. The simple act of sharing thoughts, time, a meal or whatever you have to give with the intention and consciousness of the true self inside starts to bring people powerfully into our lives on a new, exciting and meaningful level. Open our heart, speak our true mind and take the opportunity to just be.
Appreciation is very hard to begin to feel. How do we truly appreciate something? What does appreciation mean? How does appreciation build a foundation for a better life?
For some reason appreciation has come into life. It's a really simple thing to talk about however, to get to a deeper level of appreciation takes a shift. The important shift in the beginning of reaching appreciation requires a different first step.
Appreciation is difficult to feel until we actually remove ourselves from the focus. Appreciating something just because it is there, is very different to appreciating something because it benefits us or we have it.
For example, a big step in helping us achieve a fuller sense of appreciation is to start to appreciate people walking down the street. In the appreciation of a total stranger, we begin to see them in a different way and feel a connection with that human. The feeling of connection with that person is far greater fulfilment than appreciating someone because they did something for us.
Another example of appreciation is to take stock of what we have in our lives already that we overlook in our bid for more. Instead of consistently wanting more money, better job and or more happiness, have we stopped to really, deeply look at the £2 in our pocket that will buy the hot chocolate, get the friendly smile from the lady that makes it, keep our hands warm and give us that brilliant start to the day? This is not a small example because in the appreciation for these moments and what we already have, we build a foundation for more into my life and more appreciation. That connects.
Inside all of us is a different person to the one most people know us to be. Why do we hide our inner-self? How do we portray ourselves to others? What ways can we get the true-self to shine through?
One of the hardest challenges for us in our personal work and elevation is the ability to allow our true-self to come through. It's very easy for us to have an outside layer or wall which we create to protect ourselves based on our current life experiences, pressures and challenges.
Our outer-self is something we build in an effort to move us forward in life. There are tricks or tools as human beings we learn to ensure we don't get hurt, pained, unloved and so on. However, the trick is that these outer-self protection tools are indeed the very things that stop us from getting what we truly want and earned. These little tricks we think are helping us are the very things that give the same result and outcomes and hold us back.
These reactions and tricks of the ego conceal our true-self. The true-self is the real you. It usually lies a deep breath away. It's not far but far enough for the ego to intercede and block it. It is good to start to remember to take that breath, have that time and really dig deep in that few seconds to think what is best in every situation to become in tune with the real self. Once we start making decisions and actions from this space, the world and universe around we will start to attract what we're really wanting to have and to share.
One of the key tools is soul development is the art of restriction. What is restriction? Why restrict ourselves? When and with whom should we share or restrict?
Restriction is the ability to notice or become aware of yourself. It is the acute strength to see a pattern or behaviour or reaction and be able to move against it. Restriction is the muscle we build to push against our normal and natural reactions in everyday life and create an option or choice for ourselves to do something different in a proactive action with absolute certainty.
For me, I noticed that a lot of my reactions come from a thought flashing through my head. These thoughts varied. Some were like, 'They think I'm stupid,'I'm not good enough', 'I need to prove myself or impress', 'They are going to leave/abandon me'. and so on. From these points of low self-esteem we disconnect from our true selves and react in manner that brings us those results.
The art of restriction is to hear that voice in our head that pulls us down, think about what affect that has on our words, actions, confidence and energy, and then stop it. It would really smash that ego and reaction if we did something completely different to what our immediate action and impulse drove us to do. Take a breath, think and then act in a different way to usual and break that cycle. Restrict on hurtful relationships, restrict on wasting money, restrict on harmful words and so on and start to see light come into our life.
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