The Matt Taylor Experience

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Aries 25 March 2012 - The Matt Taylor Experience

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Aquarius 24 January 2012 - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here is a quick video with my astrological forecast for the next week or so to bring some awareness of how things might play out with this current line up of planets. Hope it helps! I have also included some tips about how to get through the challenges that might come up so you end up the winner!

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Capricorn / Aquarius January 2012 - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here is a quick video with my astrological forecast for the next week or so to bring some awareness of how things might play out with this current line up of planets. Hope it helps! I have also included some tips about how to get through the challenges that might come up so you end up the winner!

 

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Self-Forgiveness - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here are a few quick things to tap into the power of self-forgiveness. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Learn the lessons. The first step to moving forward from challenging situations in life is to ask, 'What was in that for me?' 'How can I benefit from this?'. These kind of questions will help you dig deep into the challenge and draw out the good.

2. Detach. While we don't have to think that what someone did was right, we can allow ourselves to remove negativity from the challenge. 'Wow - look at how this has made me a ...' wonderful Mum, good friend, more understanding person etc

3. Compassion. Give ourselves the strength and permission to forgive ourslves and remind ourselves that we have everything we need inside us to get through this. We have the power of perseverance.

4. Gratitude. Thank you for this challenge for now I can see how I need to change. This is not an easy step, but reaching a place of appreciation opens a space for healing to take place.

5. Being unique. Each one of us is a different soul with our own unique journey we must take. We can remind ourselves that these hard times get me to my next level.

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Control - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here are a few quick things to move through control. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy heart and soul.

1. Control comes from within. When we relate to the world of our surrounding reality we need to tap into the energy, forces and unseen elements to give us the control we seek. The attempt to control the physical outside of us is impossible.

2. Control comes from choices. Control in our lives requires an ability to rise above our emotions, reactions and sudden urges and tap into our ability to be proactive in choice. We can change the outcome and our situation when we are empowered by control of our choices.

3. Being a cause. We have control when we are causing our lives. Controlling within will make aure we are not the effect of some else's thoughts, opinions, actions, emotions or words. When we push ourselves to rise above our reactive nature, we go to another level in our energy.

4. Not being a victim or hero. The moment we try to dominate over or succumb to external occurrences is when we loose control rather than gain. The paradox is to feel our reactive nature, notice it and then transform these  into a positive.

5. Taking responsibility. Once we are aware that control is a power we must internalise not externalise then we have responsibility and therefore the power to control the happiness, fulfillment, joy and peace we have.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Change - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here are a few quick things to move through change. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy heart and soul.

1. Change isn't easy but it is rewarding. The moment we accept that we can change, we will change. If we want change, then we have the power to create change.

2. Change is in our control. Everything in our lives has the possibility of change. We can make the good things even better and the challenges into good. Everything in our lives is our responsibility and therefore ours to change.

3. Change requires certainty. Practising and accepting that we want to change requires us to remove all doubts within us. Change develops a sense of certainty and empowerment within us.

4. Who do you want to be? When we decide to change we go on a journey. The journey is a personal process. On that journey you have the opportunity to begin to the choices about the person we want to be.

5. Clear purpose. Always have in mind the big picture and what the end goal looks like. In the tough times of change and the journey, the purpose will keep us moving.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Balance in Your Life - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here are a few quick things to bring about balance in your life and maintain it in challenging times. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Make sure that you have a clear vision of where you are heading in life. The most important part of a goal is deciding who you want to be on that journey and be that person.

2. Remember the big picture. When challenges come, remember that this is a small point along the way to something bigger. Retain certainty that this moment is will help you grow towards your goal, not away.

3. Always act positively. Even when people really are giving you a hard time or situations seem impossibe, always come from the stronger place of compassion, dignity and love and give a win-win opportunity for all.

4. Make sure your desire is sincere. In all the desires you have, make sure that you are achieving them not for yourself alone, but for the benefit of others as well.

5. Realise everything in your life is an effect of you. If something is not how you want it to be, only you have the power to change. No gossip, entitlement or blame as this increases lack of balance.

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Taurus - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with your inner Taurus and those who are Taurus. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Taurus is ruled by Venus. This means that Taurus is the sign of all beauty in the physical such as a love of money, arts, pleasant surroundings, sex and food.

2. Taurus can be very grounded to the point of being heavy and very easily impressed by the material. As an Earth sign, they like the worldly. Taurus are best in love with Water signs like Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio as these signs bring out emotions, considerations for others and intuition.

3. Taurus occurs during a time when the Israelites left Egypt which is a code for a time to leave the material for the spiritual. Taurus represents the Egypt in us.

4. Taurus can be very good at achieving targets, goals and things they want though have a stubborn and possessive side that needs to be eased. Taurus should be with other Earth signs in business like Virgo and Capricorn.

5. When a Taurus elevates their spiritual level, and reaches the understanding that matter does not exist, the idea of “mind over matter” takes over and wonderful things can happen, moving them to a less physical movie with more elevated spiritual and social meaning.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About The Relationship with Yourself - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with yourself strong. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Maintain certainty and peace of mind. No matter what challenges or troubles are facing you, always believe that you have everything within you to make it through.

2. Remember that like attracts like. If there is a problem you are experiencing with someone, the chances are that you are doing the same in your life.

3. Always love people the way you want to be loved. The energy that you put into people is the energy you will recieve.

4. You are always exactly where you are meant to be. Whenever the challenges, problems and struggles come in that means you are on the right track to reaching your goals and desires. Keep going.

5. Always be proactive in your life. Avoid reacting to others behaviour and words. Allow it to happen and move on. Keep your actions with a positive energy.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Love in a Relationship - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Here are a few quick things to keep the love in your relationship going deeper. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Always have a goal with your partner that keeps you working as a team on a project or ambition.

2. Love is an earned energy as doesn't come from someone just walking into the room. That is a short love that won't last. Make sure that your partner is doing things to earn love.

3. Keep sharing everything that you have and come from a space of wanting to reveal love in all that you do.

4. Remind yourself that everything a partner wants to do for the other person has there happiness in mind even if it doesn't seem that way.

5. Be willing to to give unconditionally and have no needs to be met in return.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About a Better Date - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Here are a few quick things to move the power of a better date. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1.  The first date offered. Say that you are busy that day and get the other person to come up with another time. This sends a good message you have a life and are not needy.

2. Take a back seat. Let the other person do most of the talking on the date. It takes the pressure of you and allows the other person to do most of the sharing. Ask lots of questions if you are nervous, then once you both arrive at a  topic you feel confident start to share.

3. First date length. It's better to not to do anything that lasts more than an hour or so. It is better if the date is low key such a coffee, a quick walk in the park or a lunch break.

4. Get the other person to chose the cafe, bar or park. Let's see what their thought process is and how organised they are. You'll soon tell if they are genuinely interested even if they put a little thought into the place.

5. If you are comfortable to see the person again, do something along these lines for three or four times before taking it up to something like dinner and a movie.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - The Relationship Within - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

There are abundant images of happy couples in front of us creating an impression that most people are in a happy relationship status. How often do we consider the relationship within? What do we want to love inside? What are we married to in regards to who we are?

Relationships with family, friends and partners are challenging. They can be the very thing that really help us grow or can pull us down. Finding the right partner can be something that is a challenge in itself. If we start to consider the relationship with who we are the journey can be made a little lighter. Looking for the positives within you and the things you want to change are the first step.

To take the first step into a relationship with ourselves is to ask ourself how we see or define love. The only real thing in life is love so it is an important concept. What can love do for us? How does love affect us? What do we love about us. Remember that opposites do not attract. Like attracts like. These are the characteristics we want in the other person. The negatives in ourselves are thing we want to eradicate and work on and change. These could be jealousy, anger, victim, frustrations, worry and these kinds of emotions. By working on this with ourselves, we will be sure not to take them into our relationships.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Earning is Better than Deserving - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

The world can enable us to feel a sense of deserving. Why is better to earn something? How does deserving do us a disservice? What are the results of earning over deserving?

There are many cases of people in financially challenging situations who have won a lot of money. We get a sense inside of us that this is wonderfully fair and a great deal of good has been done. However, in a lot of cases, this new found wealth has led to disaster within these families including gaol, murder, bankruptcy and family distress. This sudden bolt of injection has burnt them like toast.

The better alternative is for us to grow with success. If we are financially challenged it is better for us to earn money and grow slowly within and outside for us to deal and grow with what is coming.

The same principal can be applied to a new relationship, job, family or project. For us to start to overcome our personal challenges and goals, we need to feel a sense of ownership and growth that is comparative. The more we earn, the more we feel positive about what we have including appreciation, joy and happiness, while a quick fix-it usually brings jealousy, chaos and more distress. Taking proactive steps to earn will lead to fulfillment and further prosperity.

 

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Removing Agenda - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

To remove agenda from our lives, gives us the presence to be in the moment and connected. How do we take plans away? Why is it better to have no agenda? What is the best way to achieve our desire without having any checklist?

When we set our minds on a desire, dream, ambition, it can be very easy to start to try and control what is outside of us and start to try and manipulate every situation to fit with how we see every part of our world. Often, we want our desires to turn to reality right away and have them transpire in front us. This need for immediacy in our lives can mean we start to drive plans for how things will eventuate.

When we have desires such as a new relationship, business, job, house or friendships, we start to build pictures of exactly how these things 'should' be and put our ideal into the situation. It becomes hard for us to remain open to new ideas and suggestions. Having an agenda sets us on a direct path for a limitation and removes us from endless possibility which is better than we could have even imagined.

When we want new situations in our lives we don't have to worry about what our new partner looks like or what they wear, we just need to remain open to the possibility of having a wonderful relationship and something very special will start to happen. You will be on the journey and happy on the journey, knowing that you will be happy when the person comes into your life.

Remain open and remove agenda and watch magic happen.

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Allow, Don't Control - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Control is a massive part of our ego and insecurity. Why do we worry about our future? How does control keep us from true fulfilment and prevent our potential? How do we allow our lives and others to be and flow?

We all like to feel, think and see that we are in control. We like to assure ourselves of a certain outcome and most importantly, we must be right. Above all things in a situation, we must prove that we had the best answer, new all the solutions and our word is the best. Anyone else who would suggest that our version of life is not the best is just asking for problems. Most of this element of control stems from judgement.

During the process of transformation from control, we start to open our hearts to allow. We want to give reverence to be. If we can get past the limitations of our own outcomes, judgement and ideas, we open the possibility of endless possibility. We open ourselves to change, to prosperity and to experiences we couldn't even have thought of ourselves. We surpass what we thought was right, and head towards certainty and the removal of limitation.

Allow others to do and be as they please, allow life to unfold in the journey to your destination, allow others to have an experience and to listen to their side, allow in an energy greater than yours and be at peace with yourself and others. Once we tap into an unconditional love and remove control, the world becomes an easier place to be.