The Matt Taylor Experience

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About a Better Date - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Here are a few quick things to move the power of a better date. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1.  The first date offered. Say that you are busy that day and get the other person to come up with another time. This sends a good message you have a life and are not needy.

2. Take a back seat. Let the other person do most of the talking on the date. It takes the pressure of you and allows the other person to do most of the sharing. Ask lots of questions if you are nervous, then once you both arrive at a  topic you feel confident start to share.

3. First date length. It's better to not to do anything that lasts more than an hour or so. It is better if the date is low key such a coffee, a quick walk in the park or a lunch break.

4. Get the other person to chose the cafe, bar or park. Let's see what their thought process is and how organised they are. You'll soon tell if they are genuinely interested even if they put a little thought into the place.

5. If you are comfortable to see the person again, do something along these lines for three or four times before taking it up to something like dinner and a movie.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - The True Representation of You - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

In a speedy time when the world goes at a crazy pace and pressure and challenges are very present in our lives, it's important to take an audit of who we are. Are we behaving true to ourselves? Are we representing ourselves correctly in hard times? What do we want our time to represent and with what character do we want to express?

When challenges, pressures or hard time come into our lives it's very easy for us to become highly reactive. We can become angry, destructive, anxious, worried and all of those negative traits. We can also behave in a way which we think others want to behave and short-change ourselves through wanting to please creating our character as a victim.

It's good to have a mantra about who we are in these times. Start to consider the three most important and positive ways of behaviour the really characterise the true essence of us. It could be creative, balanced, powerful, loving and those kinds of attributes. This way we can look back and know we were true to how we want to be represented.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Opening Your Heart - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

It is very easy to go through life holding on to pain. Why is it hard to forget the past? Is the fear and pain real? How do we open our hearts and love unconditionally?

Amongst pain, hatred, fear, loss, anger, guilt and other such negative emotions, it becomes very easy for us to lose the power of our positivity. We can look for very short terms answers and quick, easy ways to then heal us of our problems which can often heighten the negativity. Looking for simple remedies through hurting others, over-indulging, gossipping and other such behaviours to boost our own esteem in fact bolster the issue and detach us from our true selves even further.

For connection back to our love, vitality, creativity, joy and fearless behaviour, we must return to a space without limitation. We must open our hearts to conceive a world without boundaries. These boundaries can be physical and personal. It is possible to heal our hearts by closing the gap with the ones with whom we feel the pain. Perhaps not always directly with the person, but at least in our minds, we must bring ourselves to hold unconditional love and in fact appreciation for these actions.

The love and appreciation for what lesson they have taught us and how that strengthened us as human beings will heal the damage. While revenge, jealousy and rage can drive our reactions, once you establish a firm footing in the world of thanks and gratitude, their actions will hold no power over us and we can carry on regardless defusing our stress and regaining proactive actions and certainty in our life. Let go and keep remembering how good it is have known the lesson.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Everything in Perfect Order - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

The universe provides in a perfectly organised and divine order. What are the ways we can tap into this order? Why does everything have order? How does this order impact us?

In a universe where energy for the soul is endless, it would make sense that we are able to tap into this power or light when we wish and receive in moments without any realisation of time or space. However, in true soul work, we need to earn  and share our abundance or desires to truly move our soul more towards this light. 

Each point along this journey to our desire, we receive rewards for our spiritual work from the universe by placing us in the right situations to earn or to share. If the reward is a challenging situation on the journey, we must earn our way to our desire, for example, by finding certainty or pushing against our ego. If the reward a situation of opportunity along the journey we have opportunity to share  with others which pushes us forward towards our desires and be like the light.

In the perfect order of the universe our desires are achieved by providing us opportunity to connect with the light increasingly and develop the relationship with the universe's energy. Always remember that where we are along our journey is the right spot for us and where we are meant to be. Remain in a state of appreciation that these challenges and/or opportunities are strengthening our soul to prepare us well for all the abundance we want to receive.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Finding the Light - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Finding the light or finding the good in every situation is a great challenge. What is the light? How do we become thankful for every situation? Why do we need to see the light in even the worst of situations.

Life and the world is full of bad things happening to good people all the time. It is hard to find the purpose of someone having a serious illness, losing their job or not living in peaceful countries. To understand or find the reason why we are thrown into discomfort are sometimes beyond us.

In times of immense challenge and despair, we need to look for the good or the light. We are given these challenges as opportunities to work hard against our ego. This is the chaos in which we can dig deep to find what true power we have inside to bring rectification. It is our chance to be proactive and demonstrate our good, strong, sharing, true nature rather than react and fall into a spiral of anger, fear, despair, pity or other negative emotions.

Life gives us a chance to fall. The further we fall the higher we bounce back and the more light and good we become. Our intention and behaviour during darkness is what leads to the success of our desires. We have  more chance of success from hard challenges than having things too easy. From the opportunity to learn something about ourselves, face a challenge and the chance to earn our way out of hardship, we are given a space to be thankful.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Stretch Our Boundary - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Often, we live in a great deal of comfort in how far we believe we can extend ourselves. Wouldn't it be great if we could push just that bit further? How much more could we achieve if we stepped past our comfort zone? Can we make our lives as big as possible?

It's a real challenge in our day to day lives to see our potential beyond what we are doing. Each day holds a certain amount of routine and expectation. Within this routine we build a boundary or a barrier to what we could possibly be really achieving. We often dream of great things we could do but have a fear of putting these dreams on the line and turning them into reality.

What is a great desire to have in five years time? The challenge is not about creating a goal or aspiration as that can be something we do each day or each week, but to dig deep and commit to something that is big enough to hold for five years is a real stretch. The stretch is one desire we can really focus on beyond our daily and weekly routine.

To create a true desire it must be something that we ultimately share with other people. On top of pushing the desire to be a big stretch we must almost push past the boundary of whom we are willing to share the desire. We must push past the family, the friends, the neighbour and out into the community. The bigger the desire, the bigger the share and stretching ourselves to our full and true potential and fulfilment. Only then, real change is going to come.