The Matt Taylor Experience

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Aries 25 March 2012 - The Matt Taylor Experience

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Aquarius 24 January 2012 - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here is a quick video with my astrological forecast for the next week or so to bring some awareness of how things might play out with this current line up of planets. Hope it helps! I have also included some tips about how to get through the challenges that might come up so you end up the winner!

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Capricorn / Aquarius January 2012 - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here is a quick video with my astrological forecast for the next week or so to bring some awareness of how things might play out with this current line up of planets. Hope it helps! I have also included some tips about how to get through the challenges that might come up so you end up the winner!

 

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Ego - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here are a few quick things to help you overcome ego. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy heart and soul.

1. Ego is the opponent. The ego lives in the last place you would think to look. It resides within and is our greatest challenge.

2. Ego is many different things. Ego is not just arrogance but the whole array of negative behaviour that can be expressed. It can include anger, jealousy, shyness, low self esteem, failure gossiping, impatience and anything that can make you feel better at the cost of someone else.

3. The game of ego. The game of our ego is to beat it. It is to overcome these negative traits and reveal our true selves. If we can overcome our negativity, we can master our own lives and control our destiny.

4. Ego at work. The ego is constantly on the go and we must be aware of how we react to challenges and change. The work we have to do is change our reactions and become proactive.

5. Beat the ego. Ego sabotages our success. To gain the things in our lives we really want we must hear the ego and do the opposite no matter how illogical it seems. The illogical is the logical in getting what you want.

 

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Balance in Your Life - The Matt Taylor Experience

Here are a few quick things to bring about balance in your life and maintain it in challenging times. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Make sure that you have a clear vision of where you are heading in life. The most important part of a goal is deciding who you want to be on that journey and be that person.

2. Remember the big picture. When challenges come, remember that this is a small point along the way to something bigger. Retain certainty that this moment is will help you grow towards your goal, not away.

3. Always act positively. Even when people really are giving you a hard time or situations seem impossibe, always come from the stronger place of compassion, dignity and love and give a win-win opportunity for all.

4. Make sure your desire is sincere. In all the desires you have, make sure that you are achieving them not for yourself alone, but for the benefit of others as well.

5. Realise everything in your life is an effect of you. If something is not how you want it to be, only you have the power to change. No gossip, entitlement or blame as this increases lack of balance.

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About Taurus - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with your inner Taurus and those who are Taurus. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Taurus is ruled by Venus. This means that Taurus is the sign of all beauty in the physical such as a love of money, arts, pleasant surroundings, sex and food.

2. Taurus can be very grounded to the point of being heavy and very easily impressed by the material. As an Earth sign, they like the worldly. Taurus are best in love with Water signs like Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio as these signs bring out emotions, considerations for others and intuition.

3. Taurus occurs during a time when the Israelites left Egypt which is a code for a time to leave the material for the spiritual. Taurus represents the Egypt in us.

4. Taurus can be very good at achieving targets, goals and things they want though have a stubborn and possessive side that needs to be eased. Taurus should be with other Earth signs in business like Virgo and Capricorn.

5. When a Taurus elevates their spiritual level, and reaches the understanding that matter does not exist, the idea of “mind over matter” takes over and wonderful things can happen, moving them to a less physical movie with more elevated spiritual and social meaning.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - About The Relationship with Yourself - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with yourself strong. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.

1. Maintain certainty and peace of mind. No matter what challenges or troubles are facing you, always believe that you have everything within you to make it through.

2. Remember that like attracts like. If there is a problem you are experiencing with someone, the chances are that you are doing the same in your life.

3. Always love people the way you want to be loved. The energy that you put into people is the energy you will recieve.

4. You are always exactly where you are meant to be. Whenever the challenges, problems and struggles come in that means you are on the right track to reaching your goals and desires. Keep going.

5. Always be proactive in your life. Avoid reacting to others behaviour and words. Allow it to happen and move on. Keep your actions with a positive energy.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - The Relationship Within - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

There are abundant images of happy couples in front of us creating an impression that most people are in a happy relationship status. How often do we consider the relationship within? What do we want to love inside? What are we married to in regards to who we are?

Relationships with family, friends and partners are challenging. They can be the very thing that really help us grow or can pull us down. Finding the right partner can be something that is a challenge in itself. If we start to consider the relationship with who we are the journey can be made a little lighter. Looking for the positives within you and the things you want to change are the first step.

To take the first step into a relationship with ourselves is to ask ourself how we see or define love. The only real thing in life is love so it is an important concept. What can love do for us? How does love affect us? What do we love about us. Remember that opposites do not attract. Like attracts like. These are the characteristics we want in the other person. The negatives in ourselves are thing we want to eradicate and work on and change. These could be jealousy, anger, victim, frustrations, worry and these kinds of emotions. By working on this with ourselves, we will be sure not to take them into our relationships.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Earning is Better than Deserving - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

The world can enable us to feel a sense of deserving. Why is better to earn something? How does deserving do us a disservice? What are the results of earning over deserving?

There are many cases of people in financially challenging situations who have won a lot of money. We get a sense inside of us that this is wonderfully fair and a great deal of good has been done. However, in a lot of cases, this new found wealth has led to disaster within these families including gaol, murder, bankruptcy and family distress. This sudden bolt of injection has burnt them like toast.

The better alternative is for us to grow with success. If we are financially challenged it is better for us to earn money and grow slowly within and outside for us to deal and grow with what is coming.

The same principal can be applied to a new relationship, job, family or project. For us to start to overcome our personal challenges and goals, we need to feel a sense of ownership and growth that is comparative. The more we earn, the more we feel positive about what we have including appreciation, joy and happiness, while a quick fix-it usually brings jealousy, chaos and more distress. Taking proactive steps to earn will lead to fulfillment and further prosperity.

 

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - The True Representation of You - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

In a speedy time when the world goes at a crazy pace and pressure and challenges are very present in our lives, it's important to take an audit of who we are. Are we behaving true to ourselves? Are we representing ourselves correctly in hard times? What do we want our time to represent and with what character do we want to express?

When challenges, pressures or hard time come into our lives it's very easy for us to become highly reactive. We can become angry, destructive, anxious, worried and all of those negative traits. We can also behave in a way which we think others want to behave and short-change ourselves through wanting to please creating our character as a victim.

It's good to have a mantra about who we are in these times. Start to consider the three most important and positive ways of behaviour the really characterise the true essence of us. It could be creative, balanced, powerful, loving and those kinds of attributes. This way we can look back and know we were true to how we want to be represented.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Removing Agenda - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

To remove agenda from our lives, gives us the presence to be in the moment and connected. How do we take plans away? Why is it better to have no agenda? What is the best way to achieve our desire without having any checklist?

When we set our minds on a desire, dream, ambition, it can be very easy to start to try and control what is outside of us and start to try and manipulate every situation to fit with how we see every part of our world. Often, we want our desires to turn to reality right away and have them transpire in front us. This need for immediacy in our lives can mean we start to drive plans for how things will eventuate.

When we have desires such as a new relationship, business, job, house or friendships, we start to build pictures of exactly how these things 'should' be and put our ideal into the situation. It becomes hard for us to remain open to new ideas and suggestions. Having an agenda sets us on a direct path for a limitation and removes us from endless possibility which is better than we could have even imagined.

When we want new situations in our lives we don't have to worry about what our new partner looks like or what they wear, we just need to remain open to the possibility of having a wonderful relationship and something very special will start to happen. You will be on the journey and happy on the journey, knowing that you will be happy when the person comes into your life.

Remain open and remove agenda and watch magic happen.

 

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Allow, Don't Control - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Control is a massive part of our ego and insecurity. Why do we worry about our future? How does control keep us from true fulfilment and prevent our potential? How do we allow our lives and others to be and flow?

We all like to feel, think and see that we are in control. We like to assure ourselves of a certain outcome and most importantly, we must be right. Above all things in a situation, we must prove that we had the best answer, new all the solutions and our word is the best. Anyone else who would suggest that our version of life is not the best is just asking for problems. Most of this element of control stems from judgement.

During the process of transformation from control, we start to open our hearts to allow. We want to give reverence to be. If we can get past the limitations of our own outcomes, judgement and ideas, we open the possibility of endless possibility. We open ourselves to change, to prosperity and to experiences we couldn't even have thought of ourselves. We surpass what we thought was right, and head towards certainty and the removal of limitation.

Allow others to do and be as they please, allow life to unfold in the journey to your destination, allow others to have an experience and to listen to their side, allow in an energy greater than yours and be at peace with yourself and others. Once we tap into an unconditional love and remove control, the world becomes an easier place to be.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - No Doubt No Limitations - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Removing doubt and limitations is a challenging part of the process for success in what we do. How do limitations effect us? Why do we doubt? What are the effects of these two factors on our actions?

Doubt and limitations are challenging aspects of human behaviour to shake. To be able to to set forth into an action with absolute certainty is something in itself to overcome. If the journey is more important than the destination, than one massive part of struggle during the journey is to gain the confidence and certainty in ourselves and remove aspects of our doubting and limiting selves.

Ego is a big part of doubt and this two factors. Low self-esteem, impatience, fear, not 'being good enough', control, insecurity and similar things ofwhich we all have a little list. This is why importantly we must go for our dreams and aspirations. The reason we have a doubt and accumulate them is because we have allowed the illusion of time to set in with the effect of procrastination. Once time sets in, our limiting behaviour has a moment to enter our heads and get those voices talking.

The effects of limitations and doubts all add up to the ongoing story in our head that preclude us from being the best version of ourselves we can be. The longer we leave the more doubt and limitations take hold. Bust them today and make steps to living those dreams and getting your true life expressed.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - No Time to Waste - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

In life, many of our thoughts, dreams, desires and ideas simply disappear. What happens in the stage between thinking of greatness and doing nothing? Why do we pull out? How do we sell ourselves short?

For many people, life is a series of little waves. We go up and have a good day and we dip a little and have a bad day. We have a slightly good moments that stand out and occasional bad moments where we have some struggles. Obviously there are extreme cases, but these are few and far between. The average person has a ripple life.

Every day we can have a multitude of opportunities, breakthroughs, options, choices, ideas, strokes of genius and thoughts of absolute brilliance. We all have talents, ambitions, goals and desires. Unfortunately, we have the wonderful moments of truth inside us that seems to halt. We have a head full of giddiness with excitement. The second we stop and think about the clarity of purpose, it's gone.

Time is one of the biggest opponents in our lives. Time creates a gap between brilliance and doubt. Time is an illusion when uncertainty creeps in and kills that spark of our true selves. We want to change. We can change. Get certainty, identify your dreams and act. There is no time to waste.

Soul Coaching & Karmic Astrology - Removing Guilt and Victimhood - The Matt Taylor Experience - London & International

Feeling pains of guilt and states of victimhood is a common occurrence for all of us. Why do we feel obliged? How do stop the imbalance? Are we always likely to be this way if this is who we are?

A lot of the time we feel obliged, compelled or forced to do things or make choices we don't necessarily want to make. The full forces of our ego or the little voices within are pushing us into decisions against our true nature. We are urged to be pleasers, followers or obligers. There is nothing wrong with these things, however sometimes an imbalance occurs and we feel trapped into a behaviour that we no longer serves us or others.

To stop imbalance in our lives, we have to learn a different set of behaviours. This means we need to make a correction and recreate a balance. It doesn't mean that we have to win, object or run from everything. It means we have to try and make a few decisions against our egos and reach out a bit.

We don't want to be control freaks, but generally, we want to be leaders. People who can make firm decisions based on proactivity rather than reaction. Say 'no' when you feel obliged to say 'yes' a few times, just to break the habit. Make a concerted effort to be interested in other people and there concerns to break the victimhood. Take a breath before answering as this will let the true you raise above your normal reactions.