Here are a few quick things to tap into the power of self-forgiveness. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Learn the lessons. The first step to moving forward from challenging situations in life is to ask, 'What was in that for me?' 'How can I benefit from this?'. These kind of questions will help you dig deep into the challenge and draw out the good.
2. Detach. While we don't have to think that what someone did was right, we can allow ourselves to remove negativity from the challenge. 'Wow - look at how this has made me a ...' wonderful Mum, good friend, more understanding person etc
3. Compassion. Give ourselves the strength and permission to forgive ourslves and remind ourselves that we have everything we need inside us to get through this. We have the power of perseverance.
4. Gratitude. Thank you for this challenge for now I can see how I need to change. This is not an easy step, but reaching a place of appreciation opens a space for healing to take place.
5. Being unique. Each one of us is a different soul with our own unique journey we must take. We can remind ourselves that these hard times get me to my next level.
Here are a few quick things to keep the relationship with your inner Gemini and those who are Gemini. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Gemini is ruled by Mercury. This means that Gemini is the sign of intellect and communication in the physical and, as such, have a strength for information, speed, talking, many projects on the go and knowledge across many different topics.
2. Gemini is speed. Gemini can be fast to the point of skimming and lacking depth in their life. As an Air sign, they like the stimulation. Gemini might find challenges in love with Earth signs as they may be too heavy and slow for a Gemini. Gemini will want to be on the move and adventurous for someone like a heavy Taurus or Capricorn.
3. Gemini and fusion. Gemini occurs during a time when we are building our possibilities for the next year which is a time to fuse the spiritual world with the physical. Basically, we can all manifest something new during this month and overcome something negative about ourselves in the process.
4. Twins of Gemini. Gemini is represented by the twins which represents the extremes of two worlds within. The good and dark and other dualities create a Gemini personality finding challenges, focus and balance or being calm very challenging. This leads to doubts and uncertainties. Focus is the key for Gemini.
5. Gemini's grounding. When a Gemini can overcome their nature, they find a better ability to cope and more satisfaction in life as they will be able to get roots, form deeper relationships, commit to what is in their life and settle their energy that can be very flighty. It is an air sign, and like the air, can be very hard to pin down or capture.
Here are a few quick things to bring about balance in your life and maintain it in challenging times. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Make sure that you have a clear vision of where you are heading in life. The most important part of a goal is deciding who you want to be on that journey and be that person.
2. Remember the big picture. When challenges come, remember that this is a small point along the way to something bigger. Retain certainty that this moment is will help you grow towards your goal, not away.
3. Always act positively. Even when people really are giving you a hard time or situations seem impossibe, always come from the stronger place of compassion, dignity and love and give a win-win opportunity for all.
4. Make sure your desire is sincere. In all the desires you have, make sure that you are achieving them not for yourself alone, but for the benefit of others as well.
5. Realise everything in your life is an effect of you. If something is not how you want it to be, only you have the power to change. No gossip, entitlement or blame as this increases lack of balance.
Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with your inner Taurus and those who are Taurus. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Taurus is ruled by Venus. This means that Taurus is the sign of all beauty in the physical such as a love of money, arts, pleasant surroundings, sex and food.
2. Taurus can be very grounded to the point of being heavy and very easily impressed by the material. As an Earth sign, they like the worldly. Taurus are best in love with Water signs like Pisces, Cancer and Scorpio as these signs bring out emotions, considerations for others and intuition.
3. Taurus occurs during a time when the Israelites left Egypt which is a code for a time to leave the material for the spiritual. Taurus represents the Egypt in us.
4. Taurus can be very good at achieving targets, goals and things they want though have a stubborn and possessive side that needs to be eased. Taurus should be with other Earth signs in business like Virgo and Capricorn.
5. When a Taurus elevates their spiritual level, and reaches the understanding that matter does not exist, the idea of “mind over matter” takes over and wonderful things can happen, moving them to a less physical movie with more elevated spiritual and social meaning.
Here are a few quick things to keep the the relationship with yourself strong. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. Maintain certainty and peace of mind. No matter what challenges or troubles are facing you, always believe that you have everything within you to make it through.
2. Remember that like attracts like. If there is a problem you are experiencing with someone, the chances are that you are doing the same in your life.
3. Always love people the way you want to be loved. The energy that you put into people is the energy you will recieve.
4. You are always exactly where you are meant to be. Whenever the challenges, problems and struggles come in that means you are on the right track to reaching your goals and desires. Keep going.
5. Always be proactive in your life. Avoid reacting to others behaviour and words. Allow it to happen and move on. Keep your actions with a positive energy.
Here are a few quick things to move the power of a better date. This is not the ultimate list but contains a few reminders of some basics. This is how to build a healthy soul.
1. The first date offered. Say that you are busy that day and get the other person to come up with another time. This sends a good message you have a life and are not needy.
2. Take a back seat. Let the other person do most of the talking on the date. It takes the pressure of you and allows the other person to do most of the sharing. Ask lots of questions if you are nervous, then once you both arrive at a topic you feel confident start to share.
3. First date length. It's better to not to do anything that lasts more than an hour or so. It is better if the date is low key such a coffee, a quick walk in the park or a lunch break.
4. Get the other person to chose the cafe, bar or park. Let's see what their thought process is and how organised they are. You'll soon tell if they are genuinely interested even if they put a little thought into the place.
5. If you are comfortable to see the person again, do something along these lines for three or four times before taking it up to something like dinner and a movie.
The world can enable us to feel a sense of deserving. Why is better to earn something? How does deserving do us a disservice? What are the results of earning over deserving?
There are many cases of people in financially challenging situations who have won a lot of money. We get a sense inside of us that this is wonderfully fair and a great deal of good has been done. However, in a lot of cases, this new found wealth has led to disaster within these families including gaol, murder, bankruptcy and family distress. This sudden bolt of injection has burnt them like toast.
The better alternative is for us to grow with success. If we are financially challenged it is better for us to earn money and grow slowly within and outside for us to deal and grow with what is coming.
The same principal can be applied to a new relationship, job, family or project. For us to start to overcome our personal challenges and goals, we need to feel a sense of ownership and growth that is comparative. The more we earn, the more we feel positive about what we have including appreciation, joy and happiness, while a quick fix-it usually brings jealousy, chaos and more distress. Taking proactive steps to earn will lead to fulfillment and further prosperity.
In a speedy time when the world goes at a crazy pace and pressure and challenges are very present in our lives, it's important to take an audit of who we are. Are we behaving true to ourselves? Are we representing ourselves correctly in hard times? What do we want our time to represent and with what character do we want to express?
When challenges, pressures or hard time come into our lives it's very easy for us to become highly reactive. We can become angry, destructive, anxious, worried and all of those negative traits. We can also behave in a way which we think others want to behave and short-change ourselves through wanting to please creating our character as a victim.
It's good to have a mantra about who we are in these times. Start to consider the three most important and positive ways of behaviour the really characterise the true essence of us. It could be creative, balanced, powerful, loving and those kinds of attributes. This way we can look back and know we were true to how we want to be represented.
Inside all of us is a different person to the one most people know us to be. Why do we hide our inner-self? How do we portray ourselves to others? What ways can we get the true-self to shine through?
One of the hardest challenges for us in our personal work and elevation is the ability to allow our true-self to come through. It's very easy for us to have an outside layer or wall which we create to protect ourselves based on our current life experiences, pressures and challenges.
Our outer-self is something we build in an effort to move us forward in life. There are tricks or tools as human beings we learn to ensure we don't get hurt, pained, unloved and so on. However, the trick is that these outer-self protection tools are indeed the very things that stop us from getting what we truly want and earned. These little tricks we think are helping us are the very things that give the same result and outcomes and hold us back.
These reactions and tricks of the ego conceal our true-self. The true-self is the real you. It usually lies a deep breath away. It's not far but far enough for the ego to intercede and block it. It is good to start to remember to take that breath, have that time and really dig deep in that few seconds to think what is best in every situation to become in tune with the real self. Once we start making decisions and actions from this space, the world and universe around we will start to attract what we're really wanting to have and to share.
One of the key tools is soul development is the art of restriction. What is restriction? Why restrict ourselves? When and with whom should we share or restrict?
Restriction is the ability to notice or become aware of yourself. It is the acute strength to see a pattern or behaviour or reaction and be able to move against it. Restriction is the muscle we build to push against our normal and natural reactions in everyday life and create an option or choice for ourselves to do something different in a proactive action with absolute certainty.
For me, I noticed that a lot of my reactions come from a thought flashing through my head. These thoughts varied. Some were like, 'They think I'm stupid,'I'm not good enough', 'I need to prove myself or impress', 'They are going to leave/abandon me'. and so on. From these points of low self-esteem we disconnect from our true selves and react in manner that brings us those results.
The art of restriction is to hear that voice in our head that pulls us down, think about what affect that has on our words, actions, confidence and energy, and then stop it. It would really smash that ego and reaction if we did something completely different to what our immediate action and impulse drove us to do. Take a breath, think and then act in a different way to usual and break that cycle. Restrict on hurtful relationships, restrict on wasting money, restrict on harmful words and so on and start to see light come into our life.
The universe provides in a perfectly organised and divine order. What are the ways we can tap into this order? Why does everything have order? How does this order impact us?
In a universe where energy for the soul is endless, it would make sense that we are able to tap into this power or light when we wish and receive in moments without any realisation of time or space. However, in true soul work, we need to earn and share our abundance or desires to truly move our soul more towards this light.
Each point along this journey to our desire, we receive rewards for our spiritual work from the universe by placing us in the right situations to earn or to share. If the reward is a challenging situation on the journey, we must earn our way to our desire, for example, by finding certainty or pushing against our ego. If the reward a situation of opportunity along the journey we have opportunity to share with others which pushes us forward towards our desires and be like the light.
In the perfect order of the universe our desires are achieved by providing us opportunity to connect with the light increasingly and develop the relationship with the universe's energy. Always remember that where we are along our journey is the right spot for us and where we are meant to be. Remain in a state of appreciation that these challenges and/or opportunities are strengthening our soul to prepare us well for all the abundance we want to receive.
Finding the light or finding the good in every situation is a great challenge. What is the light? How do we become thankful for every situation? Why do we need to see the light in even the worst of situations.
Life and the world is full of bad things happening to good people all the time. It is hard to find the purpose of someone having a serious illness, losing their job or not living in peaceful countries. To understand or find the reason why we are thrown into discomfort are sometimes beyond us.
In times of immense challenge and despair, we need to look for the good or the light. We are given these challenges as opportunities to work hard against our ego. This is the chaos in which we can dig deep to find what true power we have inside to bring rectification. It is our chance to be proactive and demonstrate our good, strong, sharing, true nature rather than react and fall into a spiral of anger, fear, despair, pity or other negative emotions.
Life gives us a chance to fall. The further we fall the higher we bounce back and the more light and good we become. Our intention and behaviour during darkness is what leads to the success of our desires. We have more chance of success from hard challenges than having things too easy. From the opportunity to learn something about ourselves, face a challenge and the chance to earn our way out of hardship, we are given a space to be thankful.
Prosperity is a word that conjures our imagination into a space without limitation and to dream freely. Why do our dreams stop in our mind? What is abundance? Are abundance and prosperity far away places we believe belong to others?
As children. many of us are taught stories that success is only due to those who live in sacrifice. We were taught that if we work hard, save and watch pennies, then we would have financial reward. In reality, many of us work hard, watch our money and save but never seem to get past living from pay-to-pay. If we do venture into abundance than it seems to be that we can't work hard and be wealthy without our relationships going downhill or our stress levels increasing.
Prosperity is releasing all the old myths, legends and childhood advice and turning it on its head. Having abundance of everything belongs to us in full and is a part of energy, creativity and what we feel inside is our true desire. As we have started to learn, having it all is within our potential.
Through injecting certainty, making proactive steps, gaining clarity, sharing the rewards and working against our normal behaviour, we start to move towards an elevation that brings us into a realm where we are able to attract our dreams into our reality.
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